Archive for June, 2008

Make out to this

You know how some people have music that they always put on to prep themselves for a session of making out? I categorise that as ‘sexy music’. Hahaha, however, I never thought any music (other than your good ol’ Frank Sinatra and Nat King Cole but they’re so typical!) was good enough for me to put them into my category of ‘sexy music’.

I’ve heard the wonders of John Legend and I can almost hear Lena attesting to it right now but he still doesn’t quite do it for me. Until I bought Cat Power’s latest album Jukebox

Chan Marshall’s (aka Cat Power) voice is raw, powerful and sensually haunting. Her music is dark and there are always moments of shimmering excitement that slowly creep up. Her albums are some of the few which I can listen over and over to on the first listen and it’s rare cos whenever I laid my hands on a new album, I could only listen to it once first and the second listen would be a couple of days later.

But she’s got me captivated and I like how you would subtly discover that you move differently when listening to her tunes. You feel strangely more confident, sexy (erm, sexy music, rem?) and when you move, you don’t walk. You strut. You prance.

She’s not a new artiste, having been around for a good ten years. But it seems like recently, everyone has just took note of her (me included). Her songs have been featured in the soundtracks of My Blueberry Nights and Juno. I gotten these two soundtracks the same time I bought Jukebox, not having seen the songlists of the soundtracks before I bought them so imagine my pleasant surprise when I kept hearing her.

Her older album You Are Free is not as good as Jukebox, I feel, but it’s still great listening anyway.

And finally, I found the first singer whom I could fit into my ‘sexy music’ category. :)

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Marc Jacobs boots reminiscent of The Elves and the Shoemaker

Have you ever read the fairytale The Elves and the Shoemaker by The Brothers Grimm? I know it’s not a popular choice among girls’ all-time favourite fairytales but it’s mine. For some reason, I just knew Beauty and the Beast, Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty are just a bunch of BS cos seriously, who the hell turn into a beautiful man from a monster and turn a pumpkin into a carriage just with a touch of a wand?

However, there’s something strangely enticing about the possibility that while you are asleep, there are some kind-hearted elves busy churning out pretty shoes for you in the next room. I like how the poor  shoemaker first put a piece of leather on his workshop table and the next day, he got a fancy pair of boots that he could sell. And with that money, he had enough to buy leather for two pairs of boots. And in turn, he could buy leather for four pairs. And so on.

As the amount of shoes the elves made for him increased, the more excited I got while reading the book. I wanted to read on till the shoemaker got hundreds pairs of shoes but of course, it didn’t happen.

When I was going through style.com to look at the Fall 08 accessories collections, I came across this Marc Jacobs pair that immediately reminded me of the fairytale:

Somehow, this is how I imagined the boots that the elves made for the shoemaker looked like this. Maybe not as sleek and polished like the above. Maybe with more visible bold stitches… That said, I want a pair of Marc Jacobs boots made by elves!

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The girls and I

One of my fave photos of us! ’Cept Bern wasn’t with us. :(

No, we don’t normally (except for Belle) wear that many colours in one outfit. It was for Ready Set Glo at Zouk. It was fun fun fun!

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The people we call friends

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During the years of friendship you share with certain loved ones, can you remember that defining moment, which you spent with him/her that pushes the friendship to a different level?

I remember mine.

First memory took place a decade ago at this quiet spot in my secondary school with Minie. It was a couple of girls who were just chilling there during a break and we did what girls do when they come together – we talked. And since that time 10 years ago, we didn’t stop. We were only just friends of friends but from that day on, she became my closest girlfriend from that era of my life. We exchanged letters, gossips, songs’ lyrics and details of crushes. Even though I still get angsty about how hard it is to get in touch with her sometimes, i managed to coax myself into accepting her for the person that she is.

She spent hours, which could easily transpire into days, talking to me every so often when I was going through heartbreak a year ago. She would even do it during office hours (I hope her bosses would never read this and if they do, be honoured that they have such a selfless person under their employment) and never tire of telling me the same thing over and over again because I needed the reminders. And most of all, I needed her friendship.

The next is of Daphne and me at Blu-Jazz cafe in Bali Lane exactly two years ago. She was there with her friend, whom she introduced to me as Dick. But her real name is actually Sylvia, thankfully. Sylvia left around 10pm and it was just me and Daph and it was the first time we ever hung out alone. We talked about everything that popped into our minds and it’s always a great joy to discover like-minded people. When Blu-Jazz closed, we headed to Samar Cafe a couple of streets away and chatted till 5am.

And just like a true friend, she stood firmly by me when I was going through grief. She was literally, physically there for me. She was beside me when I confronted the ex, she held my hand firmly when I needed the courage, took leave off work to spend time with me, pulled me out of my house and treated me to a good ol’ massage, listened to me saying the same stuff over and kept me in check during times I wanted to give in to my overwhelming emotions. Her friendship was what made me believe that you can still make new tight friends when you’re in the mid-20s. 

Then you have the resurrected friendship – you’ve been acquittances/friends for a couple of years but you never really bothered with each other until a chance meeting. I bumped into Karen at Zouk about April last year and we both insisted we should ‘catch up’ (the two words two people who haven’t seen each other for a while always use but hardly put it into action). And surprisingly, we did finally caught up with each other a month later at Iciban Boshi at Wisma Atria. The conversations stretched to Starbucks a couple of doors away and during that few hours, the skeletons in our closets were out.

 A month later, I joined the same company as Karen and we saw each other everyday and had lunch with each other almost everyday and hung out in town together every other day. I didn’t tire of seeing her, surprisingly, cos I can get that sometimes when I’ve seen someone too often. We both got the most updated accounts of each other’s life and we both lived vicariously through each other, given that we both lead rather different personal lives. She’s the most non-judgmental (along with Sue) person I know and I feel comfortable telling her everything cos I know negative thoughts are not running at the back of her magnanimous mind. Now that I’ve left the company, the only thing I miss is her calling me randomly on my extension to speak in her slow coach voice, me going over to her desk just because and our morning breaks, lunch breaks, dinner breaks, supper breaks, crying breaks…

I’ve always accepted the fact that some people are only meant to be in your life for that short or extended periods. Sometimes they leave, sometimes you leave or sometimes, you just grow out of each other’s life. But with my friends, even if the above does happen, I’m content with what we had cos at the end of the day, we left the world with nothing (just like how I told Karen that no, she can’t bring her Margiela dresses with her) but our memories and my pals had given me some kickass ones.

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Death Cab is coming!

OMG.

Death Cab For Cutie is coming to the Esplanade on Aug 12.

OMG.

My dream, after all these years, has finally came true.

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How cool is this!

I still think it’s damn cool that ngyilian.com is mine!

Woohoo!!!

Technophiles, don’t judge. Let me relish this sense of small victory I have here.

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Yi Lian – 1; Technology – 0

I managed to figure how to get my blog url to just be ngyilian.com and I’m elated!

Coming from a tech-idiot, this is really an achievement! Yayy!

I do get happy easily. :D

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a new beginning

I had always resisted going into too much details about my love life but somehow with this new relationship, I feel compelled to write down every detail and every emotion.

I first met Matt three months ago from tomorrow on March 18. I was celebrating my secondary schoolmate Calin’s 25th with Weili, Minie and Lifang at Minotti’s. Debs Giam (who shall be known as Giam from now on to avoid confusion with Debs Tan who shall be known as Debs. hahahaha) texted me at around 10pm, “Loof reminds me of you!”

The text brought a smile to my face because I was immediately reminded of the time I spent there with her, about April last year? I think we had other friends there but I can’t remember who for the life of me because it felt like it was just me and her. We were lying on one of the couches, looking up at the sky and the hotel rooms at Fairmont (which was known as Swissotel Stamford then) and musing about life. We cried a little and laughed a lot more.

I replied, “Oh! You’re there now? I’m at Minotti’s!”
Giam: Come by and say hi!
Me: Hmmm… Who r u w? Pple I know? I dun wanna make small talk w pple i dunno!
Giam: Just Sharin and a few frens. Just come and talk to me!
Me: Ok! Just for a while ok? Not nice to leave my frens here like tat.

[Sorry for the abrupt cut-off. Stopped to go for dinner last night. haha. This is the rest as of 18th June, 11:45am]

I promptly headed to Loof and was introduced to Sharin and Matt. Sharin, i had heard a lot about from Giam but Matt? The first thought I had was, “erm… same name as my ex…” Hahaha but I remained objective. He was very smiley, friendly and was (still am lah) quite cute, I thought.

So after the introduction, I left it at that and went back to Giam for quick catch-ups and were pleasantly surprised that we were wearing the same black Topshop dress (no, I don’t get pissed off that I’m wearing the same thing as other people).

Occasionally, there would be some outbursts from Giam’s other friends and I would glance over to see Sharin hitting Matt, scolding him with words like “stop staring!” and “you’re too short!”. I didn’t know what was the fuss about and just continued to talk to Giam.

Shortly after, Matt asked me, between laughter, to stand up and I gave him an incredulous look. “Why?” He replied, “So I can see how tall are you!” I gave him another incredulous look and went back to Giam.

Giam told me how they ended up at Loof cos they were having dinner at Hanabi before and how Matt ended up treating them because he chickened out of a dare between Sharin and him. They were supposed to eat this big blob of wasabi. Sharin went for it and Matt refused to and ended up getting the bill.

I know I’m not a spicy food expert but I love my wasabi! So I teased Matt that he was a loser (little would I know I would come to realise how good he is with his chilli padi and all) and he exclaimed, “You should have seen how huge it was!”

Me: But it’s just wasabi!
Matt: But it’s huge!
Me: Just swallow lah!
Matt: Ok, how about this, next time you go for dinner with me and if you can eat that same amount I was supposed to eat, I’ll buy you dinner.
Me: Deal! (I was just trying to be feisty. hahaha)

After 20 minutes, I had to say my byes to rejoin my friends and as I stood up, Matt said, “wait wait, you’re leaving already?”

Me: Sorry, my friends are waiting.
Matt: Ask your friends over!
Me: Nah, I don’t think so. Sorry! Bye!

15 minutes after I left, Giam texted me, “Matt thinks you’re cute but what do you think?”

And that’s the beginning of our story. :)

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Hello world!

It’s always hard to write that first post on a new blog. I’m sure words will flow effortlessly soon but for now, just a simple introduction.

I’m not new to blogging, as some of you would know with my previous site. I don’t discredit what I had written there (I will transfer what I had written into archives on this site soon but being a techno-idiot that I am, I will need some time) but it’s just that it feels as if my life had taken a huge turn recently and more so since a year ago and I feel like a new site is in order. It’s cleaner and more organic and I like that.

So within the last three months, I had quit my job of a year, entered a new relationship and now, am crossing my fingers for a new job that would have me in Hong Kong.

There you go, that’s my life as of now. :)

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